I guess you could say that life is unpredictable, I learned this first hand last week when I learned the baby I was carrying was not the little girl the doctors had thought.
Her room was decorated, clothes were hung in her closet and we were actively talking about our little girl we would meet in a couple months. After a 4D ultrasound to see our little girl more in depth we quickly learned that it was not a little girl at all. After the shock wore off and I grieved the “idea” of my little girl a lesson has been learned.
Trust your gut, no matter what it tells you. Follow your heart and don’t judge yourself because of the feelings you are having. It is okay to feel sad about something you lost, as long as you look forward and realize how fortunate you are for all you have.
Our little boy will join the family in 2 short months, and as I adjust to answering, “I’m having a boy” I know whatever gender our baby is, it will be the most loved, adored and wonderful addition to our lives.